Our Wedding Favor Music Mix

It was surprisingly hard to select and agree on 80 minutes worth of music that was personal, appropriate, and fit well together. Artists that are our favorites, like Bruce Springsteen, didn't quite fit. On the other hand, bands which are barely on our radar (Haircut 100) made it when the song was just perfect for the moment. Read on for more about our wedding favor mix...
1. “Across The Universe” The Beatles • It was tough picking just one song. This is Emily’s favorite.
2. “I Love Every Little Thing About You” Stevie Wonder • I once bought three Stevie Wonder CDs in one day, and lived to tell the tale.
3. “Radio Sweetheart” Elvis Costello • We both love Elvis, and Emily used this song at the start of her college radio show.
4. “Fearless Love” Bonnie Raitt • This is an old favorite – I heard it as background music in the movie Sideways.
5. “Fair” Ben Folds Five • If our love for music were a Venn diagram, Ben Folds would be at the center of the overlap. We actually attended the same BF concert two months before we met. A very When Harry Met Sally moment, wouldn't you say?
6. "Kiss On My List" Daryl Hall & John Oates • The first cassette I bought from the Record & Tape Club was Hall & Oates Rock 'n' Soul Pt. 1. Of course, I still have the tape.
7. "Come Rain Or Come Shine" Ella Fitzgerald • For Emily, it’s impossible to pick a favorite American songbook standard, but it had to be Ella.
8. “Sunday Morning” Maroon Five • This song sounds like the soundtrack to our own screwball romantic comedy.
9. “Black Coffee In Bed” Squeeze (live 1990) • Yes, this is a breakup song, but it means a lot to us. I wrote in my online personal ad that my "most humbling moment" was when I couldn't hit the high notes in this song anymore! Emily was naturally charmed, and the rest is history.
10. “I’ll Be Your Mirror” Clem Snide • A cover version of Emily’s favorite Velvet Underground song.
11. “Lovely Day” Bill Withers • The soul classic that also reminds Emily of rollerskating up and down the driveway, circa 1982.
12. “What A Fool Believes” The Doobie Brothers • Song of the Year from 1979, this one goes out to Miss Amy Armstrong, our fellow Michael McDonald-o-phile!
13. “The Good Part” Wilco (live) • On our second date, we went to see a documentary about Emily’s favorite band. It's hard to find a Wilco song with a positive outlook on love, but this fits the bill.
14. “The Painter” Neil Young • From the album Prairie Wind, we first heard this in the amazing concert film Neil Young: Heart of Gold.
15. “This Old Heart Of Mine” The Isley Brothers • We had to include some Motown here, and Nat has a soft spot for this 1965 hit as it's prominently featured in his favorite “Moonlighting” episode!
16. "Love Plus One" Haircut 100 • This song sounds like the soundtrack to our own John Hughes 80’s teen drama.
17. “Drive South” John Hiatt • I once got John Hiatt’s autograph, but I was too nervous to engage him in conversation, can you believe it?
18. “Waiting For My Real Life To Begin” Colin Hay is the lead singer from Men At Work, a teenage favorite for both me & Em, all grown up here.
19. “Delirious Love” Neil Diamond • Another classic from our youth reincarnated!
20. “Age of Aquarius/Let The Sun Shine” featuring the Cast of The Forty-Year-Old Virgin • Feel free to sing along, just like the end of the movie...

Wedding Reception Background Music

When planning our wedding reception, my wife and I decided to omit dancing. We were more interested in the "family and friends reunion" reception than the "dance party" reception. We decided to hire a classical guitarist for the "cocktail" hour, followed by background music.

Emily and I had a lot of fun putting this playlist together. It's Nat & Em's Greatest Mellow Hits 1940-2006! There are a lot of covers of popular songs on here- it's a nice way to include a fresh take on an overplayed hit song. With the Amazon MP3 store and iTunes, it's easier than ever to browse for a cool cover song, or seek out that long-lost nugget, without paying for a full CD.

1. This Must Be The Place (Naive Melody) • Shawn Colvin
2. She's No Lady (She's My Wife) • Lyle Lovett (live)
3. I.G.Y. (International Geophysical Year) • Donald Fagen
4. Tupelo Honey • Cassandra Wilson
5. Magic In The Air • Badly Drawn Boy
6. As Time Goes By • Billie Holiday
7. Your Sweet Voice • Matthew Sweet
8. God Only Knows • The Beach Boys
9. A Mi Manera (My Way) • The Gypsy Kings
10. Words • Ellis Paul
11. Landslide • Fleetwood Mac
12. Love and Some Verses • Iron & Wine
13. Baby Now That I've Found You • Alison Krauss & Union Station
14. Better Be Home Soon • Crowded House
15. The One I Love • David Gray
16. Gee Baby, Ain't I Good To You? • Diana Krall
17. Rain King (live, acoustic) • Counting Crows
18. Calico Skies • Paul McCartney
19. Come and Find Me • Josh Ritter
20. Ooh La La • The Faces
21. Pink Moon • Nick Drake
22. I Will • Alison Krauss & Tony Furtado
23. Tonight You Belong To Me • What I really wanted was the recording in the movie The Jerk where Steve Martin and Bernadette Peters sing on the beach. I found this very similar version by Eddie Montana instead.
24. You Belong To Me • Patsy Cline
25. Stranded • If you insist on including Van Morrison in your wedding, please select one of his dozens of great ballads that are NOT "Have I Told You Lately"!
26. Razor Love • Neil Young
27. They Can't Take That Away From Me • Lisa Stansfield
28. Real Love • John Lennon recorded this as a demo only. It first appeared in the documentary John Lennon Imagine in 1988, and was later transformed into a Beatles reunion track in 1995.
29. Green Eyes • Coldplay
30. Honeymoon Suite • Suzanne Vega
31. More Than This • Charlie Hunger Quartet, featuring Norah Jones
32. One on One • Hall & Oates
33. Nightswimming • R.E.M.
34. When You Wake Up Feeling Old • Wilco
35. It Had To Be You • Billie Holiday
36. Sea of Love • The Honeydrippers
37. She Will Have Her Way • Neil Finn
38. Last Train to Clarksville • Cassandra Wilson
39. Runaway Feeling • The Thorns
40. Conceived • Beth Orton
41. Color My World • This totally retro Chicago song was my in-law's wedding song.
42. The Long and Winding Road • This version of the Beatles' classic is from the Let It Be Naked album, which strips away Phil Spector's Wall Of Sound strings and choir tracks, thank goodness!

108: Love Is Strong

The cover was inspired by the sexiest photo ever taken of actress Scarlett Johansson, from the cover of Interview magazine. The combination of a beautiful actress, and a horizontally striped sweater is irresistible. I was not satisfied with just admiring her beauty from afar; I wanted to incorporate her beauty into my cover design, even if she has ZERO to do with the contents of the CD.
I used the photo as a jumping-off point for the cover concept- I would mock up my own magazine cover, with headlines which include the titles of the songs.
At the same time, I was beginning to experiment with attaching the text to non-straight paths, and what better template than the horizontal stripes of Ms. Johansson's sweater?

1. Fascination Street THE CURE
2. Cold Turkey JOHN LENNON (A great dance remix by IDC)
3. Love Is Strong The ROLLING STONES
4. She's Gone ERIC CLAPTON
5. Hypnotized FLEETWOOD MAC
6. Don't Fear The Reaper WILCO (a low fidelity live recording)
7. I'm On Fire (live at Giants Stadium 8-19-85) BRUCE SPRINGSTEEN
8. Begin the Begin (live 11-19-92) R.E.M.
9. Use Me BILL WITHERS
10. Me Myself I - DE LA SOUL
11. 40 Days, 40 Fights BADLY DRAWN BOY
12. I Want Love ELTON JOHN (I picked this track off my wife's 2CD Greatest Hits collection, for two reasons: a> it was produced by Jeff Lynne (ELO, Traveling Wilburys), and b>Ringo Starr plays drums.
13. What Would It Take (from JEFF LYNNE's little-known solo album Armchair Theater.)
14. You Can't Get What You Want (Til You Know What You Want) JOE JACKSON
15. Stuck in the Middle vs. Nasty Girl (A silly mashup of Stealer's Wheel and Vanity 6.)
16. Big Time PETER GABRIEL
17. Lazy Sunday CHRIS PARNELL & ANDY SAMBERG
18. Cantaloupe Island YESKA (sampled by US3 for their song "Cantaloop", aka "dip trip, flip fantasia...")

107: Chairlift

The cover photo is a self-portrait, while riding the chair lift at Mt Wachusett.

The Title: This disc has no title. I created the packaging for #105, 106, and 107 all in one shot, and I was not inspired with titles.

1. Ponta de Lanca Africano (Umbabarauma) - The best song about a futbol player EVER.
2. Use It - My favorite New Pornographers song.
3. Jump Into The Fire - This Harry Nilsson song was used in the movie GoodFellas.
4. Shine - Trey Anastasio
5. I Want It That Way - You cannot deny the perfection of this song.
6. Just the Two Of Us - Bill Withers w/Grover Washington
7. Don't Let Me Lose This Dream - Aretha Franklin
8. Just One Smile - Dusty Springfield
9. Diamonds From Sierra Leone - Kanye West
10. If There's a Hell Below, We're All Going to Go - Curtis Mayfield
11. Protection - This Donna Summer song was written by Bruce Springsteen after he cancelled plans for her to duet with him on "Cover Me".
12. This Charming Man - Death Cab For Cutie
13. The Way We Make A Broken Heart - John Hiatt
14. You Can't Resist It LIVE in TEXAS- Lyle Lovett & His Large Band
15. Can't Turn You Loose LIVE in EUROPE- Otis Redding
16. Heavy Metal Drummer LIVE IN CHICAGO - Wilco
17. It Ain't Me Babe - Johnny and June Carter Cash
18. Memo From Turner - A Rolling Stones song used in the movie GoodFellas
19. Riding to Vanity Fair - Paul McCartney

106: Sunrise

The cover is a snap I took just before daybreak in Elizabeth, New Jersey on Thanksgiving morning 2005, as my wife and I awoke extra early to go see the Macy's parade.

The Title: This disc has no title. I created the packaging for #105, 106, and 107 all in one shot, and I was not inspired with titles.

1. Don't Stop Me Now - Queen, as heard in Shaun Of The Dead.
2. Lovely Day - Bill Withers
3. Deacon Blues - "Steely Dan is not one guy!"
4. I Can't Make You Love Me - Bonnie Raitt
5. Walk In The Sun - Bruce Hornsby
6. Thin Line Between Love and Hate - The Persuasions (1973)
7. Margarita - The Traveling Wilburys
8. Wild Mountain Honey - When I was a teenage DJ at WBMT 88.3 FM, We played a LOT of Steve Miller. Our Steve Miller Band Greatest Hits LP got a lot of use. It was nice to include Mr. Miller on one of my mixes for the first time in at least 10 years!
9. I Am Trying To Break Your Heart - You might think it impossible to include this Wilco song on a mix, but I think I pulled it off. Sandwiched between a trippy 1970s song and a loopy 1980s song, I think it works.
10. America Is Waiting - When I was a college DJ at WERS 88.9 FM, I played this sample-heavy experiment-rock track from David Byrne & Brian Eno on the afternoon world music/jazz fusion/experimental show Gyroscope.
11. Screenwriter's Blues - Soul Coughing
12. Desire - The "Hollywood Remix" of the U2 song.
13. Mass Romantic - New Pornographers
14. All The Right Friends - A surprisingly retrograde R.E.M. song from the Vanilla Sky movie soundtrack.
15. Panic - The Smiths
16. Soap Star Joe - This Liz Phair track brings the mix to a dead halt. I should have cut it out.
17. Frere Jacques - The famous nursery rhyme, recorded in the style of "The Space Between" by Dave Matthews Band, credited to "Dave Math Shoes". I found the web site advertising this collection and I loved it.
18. A Bit Of Alright - Paul Peña wrote the song "Jet Airliner" which Steve Miller made a smash hit. This song was (at the time) used in Boston.com/jobs TV commercials.